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i am having flames =(
my throat is so pain when i swallow anything.
and it is affecting my right ear.
and there is blood in my flames.

today i went out very early like 6plus in the morning.
to attend my band members' SYF.
they really played well today.
but they got a silver.
i believe they must be very disappointed.
but FSMB,you guys really did well!
the spirit of music was really running on fire with you guys!
result is not the main thing k?
cheer up!you guys did your best and we all can feel it!
Good job!
you guys did FSMB proud and i am proud of you guys! (:





cheer up,bestie!
you deserve better.
LOVES.


love never fails (:

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i tried curling my hair on Wednesday.



how do i look?
is it nice?
On this day,i coincidentally ran onto my last time friend,Jaryl.
Guess what he said,
"WOW!omg!you look like japanese pop star!gonna call you japanese pop star next time."
he indeed boosted my confidence.
it had been years that we saw each other.
i got to know him when my mother was still opening the bubble tea shop..
he is my loyal and regular customer.
i know he loves my recommendations!HAHA!
if he sees this message,he is gonna give me that sceptical look and say,"haha!not bad huh!"
i kinda like this hairstyle.
but i still feel that my hair is still too short for perming.
so i took away that thought.
moreover,i want to enjoy mature and cute look at the same time.
一举两得.. =D
so..i can get myself a curler and curl my hair as and when i want.
i want straight hair or curled hair also can.. :D

oh yes regarding Saturday.
the prayer meeting is very meaningful
and MJ lay hands too.
i was one of the ushers to form lines.
this is something i never try before.
it is really not that easy.
perhaps it is because of my mood that day.
hmmm! hmmmm! hmmmm! i am better already!
the service is nice and funny.
i did not have to serve choir because the CCC is leading!
they simply rocks!
after service,mingyao spoke with me.
i admit in the beginning i am very not open.
i did not expect myself to say out.
i thank God and mingyao's effort to talk wisely,
that makes me able to open up as the conversation goes on..
i don't want anymore "Are you ok?" from people anymore.
in the sense,i want to guard my feelings and do things i should do.
i want to be back on track again.
same F word, Focus!
i need to know what i want and make myself be that someone that can attract it.
i was very happy because at last i manage to get Adeline to dress the tube dress out.
suddenly my spirits just run wild..haha!
indeed my efforts and time spent is not into waste.
indeed God is always good (:
take a look at my final model!




before...
BUT-
after my magical hands...


TADA~
shocked?!
she is Miss Universe!




isn't it amazing?
she looks like Miss universe due to my shaw~!
HAHA! she is brave! she can do it!
i always tell her that!
i believe she felt very confident after some time.
it is not easy task!
when i dolled her up in the toilet,
she went down to B4 and stucked at the staircase
struggling to go down.
so i ran up and encouraged her(:
she was further convinced when the rest of the cg members and especially Mingyao
praised her.
i hope she will continue to doll up(:
meanwhile,me myself..i wanna slim down.
i know i say alot of times already.but! hmmm.i gonna believe again!
and do it! yes yes!

my plan :
  • no FRIED food
  • no tidbits
  • no soft-drinks
  • only 3 meals per day
  • no food after 8pm
yes!people around me..also help me remind me k?
heh heh!! i want to stick to it clearly.
my goal : 10kg off my body by end of this year.
it can be done i believe! (:

i miss precious alot luhh!
you better catch up with me,i tell you!
TSK. always camp camp camp!
kill you then you know! hahas XD
i also miss bestie.
you ah! you owe me one day for me!
haha XD
see ya tomorrow o!


a review of what i will be doing tomorrow:
6am onwards will be attending my fuhua military band's SYF.
go there and cheer them up and build their morale :D
yes FSMB! you all can get GOLD!
Fsmb's F-horns ROCK ON!
you guys are the people who will be leading the band.
start strong and the band will go along with you.
i believe in you guys! a place with me will be good!
HAHA! see you guys tomorrow!
rest well! <3




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someone

is very proud of you

someone

is thinking of you
someone
cares about you
someone
misses you

someone

wants to talk to you
someone
wants to be with you
someone
hopes you aren't in trouble


someone

is thankful for the support you have
provided
someone
wants to hold your hand


someone

hopes everything turns out all right
someone
wants you to be happy


someone

wants you to find them

someone

is celebrating your successes
someone
wants to give you a gift
someone
think you ARE a gift
someone
hopes you are not too cold, or too hot
someone
wants to hug you

someone

loves you
someone
wants to lavish you with small gifts
someone
admires your strength

someone

is thinking of you and smiling

someone

wants to be your shoulder to cry on
someone
wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun

someone

thinks the world of you
someone
wants to protect you
someone
would do anything for you
someone
wants to be forgiven
someone
is grateful for your forgiveness

someone

wants to laugh with you about old times

someone

remembers you and wishes you were there

someone

needs to know that your love is unconditional


somebody

values your advice
someone
wants to tell you how much they care
someone
wants to stay up watching old movies with
you

someone

wants to share their dreams with you

someone

wants to hold you in their arms
someone
wants YOU to hold them in your arms
someone
treasures your spirit

someone

wishes they could STOP time because of
you

someone

can't wait to see you
someone
wishes that things didn't have to change

someone

loves you for who you are

someone

loves the way you make them feel
someone
wants to be with you
someone
hears a song that reminds them of you
someone
wants you to know they are there for you
someone
is glad that you're their friend
someone
wants to be your friend
someone
stayed up all night thinking about you

someone

is alive because of you

someone

is wishing that you would notice them
someone
wants to get to know you better

someone

believes that you are their soul mate

someone

wants to be near you
someone
misses your guidance and advice


someone

values your guidance and advice


someone

has faith in you

someone

trusts you
someone
needs you to send them this letter

someone

needs your support
someone
needs you to have faith in them
someone
needs you to let them be your friend

someone

will cry when they read this


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my final "product" :D
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What a chio adeline yeah?
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Your view on yourself:

You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.

How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.

Who is your true self:

You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.

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goodbye

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ya!ya!ya!
forever you correct.
talk whatever nonsense you want,
i only can say i am completely turned off.
someone good ask me to hold my ground.
of course i want to,
but she is getting out of hand and
it is making me go crazy!
other than God,Himself is love that i standby,
you made me look for love at the wrong places.
11years!11YEARS! come on!
you guys are never there to protect me!
since primary school to secondary school
and even at HOME!
i hate you!
why?why?why?why?why?why?why?
in the 10 commandments,
"Honor your parents."
sighh! will money do? sighh.
no it is never enough.
it is a true heart of love for them that is needed.
they seem worse than enemy!
)': )': )': )': )': )': )': )': )': )': )': )': )': )': )':
i don't want to give up.
i don't want to look for love at the wrong place!
idontwantidonwantidontwantidonwantidontwantidonwantidontwantidonwantidontwantidonwant!
ARGHs.
"one encouragement and love words spoken by a parent
can cover 100 encouragements from others."
but i will not look forward anymore.
maybe i have already given hope on them!
totally. che che di di de fang qi!
wo yi jing fei chang sian le! )=
gimme some time to relax.
i want to move out,if it is possible.
*dilema*
i want but i can't.
the truth i hanging on to and all these negative thoughts just not click!

STOP!
DELPH,
DO NOT MEDITATE ON THE BAD THINGS,
IF NOT IT WILL KEEP ON HAPPENING~!
speak the double F words!

F.o.r.g.i.v.e and F.o.r.g.e.t

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I did this because i don't know how to create notes.
=x

ONCE YOURE DONE, TAG 15 PEOPLE TO DO IT. IF YOU'RE TAGGED, COPY AND PASTE THIS ON YOUR OWN NOTES AND ANSWER THEM TRUTHFULLY!

1. Who is your best girl friend?
ONLY CHOOSE ONE RIGHT? shannon

2. If someone were to tell you they like you right now, would you care?
more or less sure will de. especially if i like too.

3. Do you still talk to the person you fell hardest for?
haiz,sadly no.

4. Where did you last sleep other than your house?
mrt?

5. Do you have a best friend?
Yea.

6. Do you smoke?
used to in the past.not now.

7. Do you remember what you were like when you were a kid?
super cute

8. Can you vote for the next election?
don't know leh?

9. What are you listening to?
Zhu fu de jia qi

10. When will your next kiss be?
hmmm. good qns. do i look like kiss-predictor?HAHA.

11. Who do you want to see right now?
I want to see him..

12. Ever have a sleepover with the opposite sex?
not really?maybe have but i cant recall now.

13. When did your last hug take place?
12 march 09

14. Do you date smart people?
of course if i see one.

15. Where were you at 2:02pm this afternoon?
home.

16. What does the last text in your phone says?
"Haha. Me now feeding my dad. Later i call you? "

17. Do you use smiley faces on the computer a lot?
YUPPP

18. Have you ever changed clothes in a vehicle?
OOPS! i did =xXxXx

19. Who did you last eat with?
MOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.

20. Do you text alot?
depends who i am texting with.

21. How old will you be in 13 months?
19

22. When is the last time you tattooed?
Never ever tried it.

23. If you like that person will you talk about your feelings or hide them?
depends who is it, if he likes me too,i will just tell him.

24. Do you wear glasses?
Yes.

25. What are you looking forward to in the next month?


26. Will you talk to the person you like tonight?
yes of course.

27. What color shirt are you wearing?
black

28. Do you have a reason to smile right now?
Yes

29. If you won a lot of money on the lottery, what would you buy first ?
I would pay my building fund.

30. Who was the last person of the opposite sex you had a conversation with? What was it about?
care bear.一起看电视 with each other's company through call.

31. Who was driving the last car you were in?
father

32. Who was the last person that called you?
care bear

33. What are you craving right now?
chips. PLEASE. i am hungry for food.

34. What if you married the last person you kissed?
marry him? that must be miracle.

35. What are you excited about?
tomorrow i can go out already and friday will be a nice day for me.

36. Ever kissed your number 1 on facebook?
NOPE

37. When was the last time you cried? And why?
yesterday night. i got so provoked by mother's naggs.everyday from morning till sleep
still nag.

38. Ever kissed someone whose name starts with an A?
mei you.

39. Is there one person who can make you feel better no matter what?
Yes.

40. Last person you hugged?
adeline

41. What were you doing at 2:00 am last night?
snoring.

42. Have you cried today?
yea

43. What bed did you sleep in last night ?
queen size-d bed

44. Are you currently frustrated with a girl/guy?
yeaps.

45. Ever talked to someone that was high?
yes

46. Does it snow where you live?
sadly no.

47. When is the next time you will see your grandma?
cant connect with her,she is in heaven.

48. Have you kissed or hugged someone today ?
No

49. Will you be married in the next two years ?
No

50. Have you ever wanted someone you thought that you couldn't have?
Yes.

51. Are you in a relationship, single, complicated, married, or engaged?
Single and complicated.

52. How have you felt today ?
bored and disturbed.

53. Do you like your name?
YES!

54. Are you happy at the moment?
so so ba

55. What were you doing at 10:00pm last night ?
bathing.

56. Last person who drove you somewhere (besides your parents)?
no one.

57. Ever kissed someone in a closet?
Nope

58. Do you live alone ?
No

59. Do you have a friend of the opposite sex that you can talk to?
Yes

60. Are you crazy?
EXTREME

61. Who was the last person to call you babe?
care bear

62. How has this past week been for you?
stressed and negative.

63. Last thing you drank ?
soup.

64. Do you believe that every thing happens for a reason?
Yes

65. Could you ever forgive a cheater?
Yes

66. If you were reincarnated as a sea creature, what would you want to be?
a really pure pink dolphin

67. What do you normally order when you're at McDonald's?
mac spicy

68. Last book you read?
33 bei kuai le zhi shui

69. Describe your mood.
Kinda agitated and frustrated

70. Describe the last time you were injured?
Don't know

71. Of all your friends, who would you want to be stuck in a well with?
care bear,because i know he will try to get me out =xXx

72. Rock concert or symphony?
Both also good.

73. Do you like taking the MRT?
personal one maybe?

74. If you could only use a form of transportation..?
my personal car with a personal driver.

75. Whats your favorite kind of cake?
cakes that are nice and not so sweet

76. Look 20 degrees to your left, what do you see?
My bed

77. Do you untie your shoes when you take it off?
No

78. Do you buy your own groceries?
sometimes.

79. What's your favorite fruit?
peach

80. Do you like running long distances?
no

81. Have you ever eaten snow?
no

82. What color are your bedsheet?
blue!

83. Do you hate someone very badly at this moment?
yes,but trying to stop it. TSK!

84. Do you watch Spongebob?
YEAH!

85. What temperature is it outside right now?
normal?

86. Do you consider yourself smart?
lame will be the better one

87. How many piercings do you have?
2pairs

88. What language do you speak at home?
chinese

89. How do you feel about your family?
one word : PRESSURIZED

90. What time did you go to bed yesterday?
Forgotten

91. What CD is currently in your CD player?
don have

92. What do you want for Christmas this year?
a pair of real nice and comfortable flats and metal heels
dress pleaseee.

93. What is your favourite ice cream ?
BENTEN CAFE's ICE CREAM! oh no.
i craves for it RIGHT NOW.
saliva drooling.

94. What's the way people most often mispronounce any part of your name?
a strange reaction when reading my surname ,"Fur"

95. Lastly, whats your favorite color?
Red, Pink , Black

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yesterday night i went for the project superstar's 现场直播 at media corp,
with Adeline,Cindy,Yan Ling,Shu Hui,Wei Jun,Verlin,Nico
and i forget the rest.
and of course also with carebear.
he took half day off to pei me go there.

thankful?
happy?
touched?

perhaps so.

when i reached there i realized i am supporting

Ai Jia.

she is darn cute and her voice is so nicce.
the moment she started singing..
wooooo...goosebumps just crawl all over me.
you gotta believe it man!
and she got in in the last result with Jarod(another cute and good in singing boy)
yes. i was happy. carebear thought he could sit with me..
but ya..i was with adeline.
we were like tickling each other. *chuckles*
thanks to that stupid carebear.
he go and tell adeline my weak point.
TSK sia! hahaz! and there adeline goes, trying to tickle me!
muahahaha! soon it become not very ticklish already.


supeer random.

you have a pair of beautiful eyes,baby.
looking into the eyes of yours ,
i never fail to be electrified.
its as if you have captivated my heart.
my soul and my mind are crazy over you.
just you,baby,just you.
it may be destiny we met,
but definitely not fated to be together.
有缘无份.
though i am reall upset about it,
let's believe this :

"Happiness is like a butterfly:
the more you chase it,
the more it will elude you,
but if you turn your attention to other things,
it will come and sit softly on your shoulder."






take care. the last time will never come again.

我不会再帮你擦眼泪了。
goodbye.


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*round of applause to welcome delph delph back for blogging*
**applauses**
"Okayys.Thank you everybody(: "

eventually i was not able to go out on sunday
which cell group meeting falls on.
yes pretty worried and upset.
i am hungry for it i should sAY.
maybe i do not look like i am,
but i do really hunger for it.
i begin to think of ways to accommodate.


yes accommodate.

i promise to stay at home for at 3 days in a week
for an exchange of being able to attend
cell group meeting and service.
maybe to may people out there it is super easy,
don't seems to be a sacrifice.
but to me, it is.
during school days,

i rarely meet my friends and besties.
no time. and now it is holidays.
i can't even have the freedom.
1 April school is going to start again.
given freedom also no use anymore.
i need to coop with my studies.
this time round,my exams are going to be LOUSY or even FAIL.
i had really put in effort to study already.
but, well. i still can't do it.
talking about this.
tears just fell uncontrollably.
at times i have thoughts of committing suicide.
i always shout "STOP" to it.
i am really pushing myself.
to stop thinking about negative things,
to read the Word and to pray.
i am clinging on to Him,
so committing suicide is a

"NO-NO" decision.

moneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoney
moneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoney
moneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoneymoney

they are driving me CRAZY.

speak the F word.


F.A.I.T.H



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"You may be generally an amiable and pleasant person.
You may generally get along well with most people.
But somehow,
there is that one family member,
that one friend,
that one colleague,
who doesn't take to you very well.

This might disappoint you,

sadden you,
or even disillusion you.
Don't allow it to.
Every single person is unique.

Every single relationship is different.
Somewhere, somehow,
there will be people who don't quite get along.

If you allow yourself to adjust your personal values,

to change the person that you are,
just to win over that one person or few people,
you run the risk of adversely affecting the good relationships you do have.

Be positive.

Focus on your happy relationships.
At the same time, accept that there will be ones that don't go so well.
Whatever you say or do, whoever you are,
whatever character or personality you have,
you won't be able to please everyone."

Don't you agree with me? (:
I have been trying to be good with everyone.
Everytime people who comes in and out of my life..
Some of them got upset with me..
I was sad. AGAIN.
yes like someone told me before.
FOCUS! put all your efforts on these into studies.
yea..sometimes i wonder why do i become so sensitive.
Like when i am in the same status as one person.
and that person always got praised?
Is it because i never do well or they just forget to praise me.
Indeed i am silly enopugh to think,
"If only i can do even better.Maybe the things i made are childish?(:"
thats just me.
i believe someone outta there is gonna cherish my doings
and love them for who they are.
Sorry to say my hands and her hands make different thing,yeah?
i may nmot be as artistic as she is,
but i am unique in my own ways , I believe.
Hopefully all these while the people who receive the things i do,feel happy.
alrights. no more comparison =xXxXx
i am so tensed up nowadays.
i can't stand anymore that i cry during PM.
this time round a real cry.
i asked myself,"why must i always want to know so much when
i am not even sure if i can tolerate it."
Even when i say i am a good man and not a good girl..
i am still a girl though..
i tolerate like man do,
and cry like girls do..
sometimes i say i am genuine.
but now i began to doubt.
sometimes i feel i am so coooped up..
i can't be free to let go my emotions.
why? fear of this and that..
maybe the trust between the people i am with together
id not that strong yet.
guess someone is going to ask,"So what are you going to do about it?" XD
i am going toooooo............fellowship more???
i think i have really tried fellowshipping.
though i know you guys may think why i always talk to her laugh with her.
Because she is too quiet?
then some may ask did you encourage her to talk more?
I DO I DO! but she say she try.....
i can only give her some time.
if i push her too much and cause her to backslide how?
well.. i am not doing that well too...advices....well.i dono what i am capable
to do now..i thought i was a good advicer?
but i was wrong.
it is not just about one incident.
but when i asked some of them to double confirm my thinking,
yea they did.
they say only "some" do help them.
haiz. so what should i do?
believe that i can give good advices again?
then later i give wrong again then how?
aiya..whatever..
no time and energy to think about it.

anyway..sadly..i can never be with carebear.
(: why? because he is not _ _ _ i _ _ i _ _ .
do i consider being loyal?
hmmm. maybe yes maybe no.
don't want to be disturbed by it.
i have told him,
"It is impossible.Unless you are a _ _ _ i _ _ i_ _. (:"
he says he wont.. so yes..i don't want to get too _ _ _ i _ i _ _ _ too.
and yeah. and nowadays this someone keep making me feel vexed.
low confidence and esteem peepos, get out of my life!
either you change it or leave it.
i am provoked.
am i suppose to wait or let go?
why am i trapped by you? TSK!
can't expect myself to still think i shall wait for you.
"We are not meant for each other." is coming to my mind..
Oh God, show me the way.
This month of holiday i am going to devote myself to Bible reading
and seriously praying. Yes i will.







Random:
Love me for my mind and not my body ;
play with my body and not my mind.

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"Girls are like phones. We love to be held, talked to, but if you press the wrong button you'll be disconnected!"

(although sometimes we still wish you were still there on the other end of the line....)



A lot of things had happened just in like a few days time?

i have many reflections to do.

i really think i need to read my bible man!

i got so confused with what people tell me.

One word : "TSK!"

Hmmms. my bible study classes too =xXx

GOSH! i am like i missed my precious luhh!

she been in camp like for ages!

you better catch up your sleep and ME!

hmmm. i get to know a man called "care bear"

not long ago.

welll..if i were to describe him....

let me seee..i should say..

he is a very caring man luhh..

well..if you say L-O-V-E,

it is still up there yet..

aiya. L-O-V-E is suppose to be sweeet and pleasant ya?

not it is troubling me.

"Man's lack of confidence kills delph delph."

Anyway like i say,at least for this whole year,

i am not jumping to any relationship.

not even those who win my heart.

sorry..i summit to authority.

or should i say i not just a duty.

but the trust we have.

i believe my leader wants the best for me.

(:

i just don't wish myself to regret from time to time.

i don't want to keep on tracking water for so long.

i am not even near my marriage age.

if you guys can wait,

i may consider.

what is L-O-V-E to you guys? (:

hmmms.

nah mind.. oh yes...

CONGRATS TO SANDY FOR PASSING HER FTT (:



Let me share a story i read:

You Can't Please Everyone.
From Aesop's Fables: The Man, The Boy, and The Donkey

A man and his son were once going with their Donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them and said: “You fools, what is a Donkey for but to ride upon?”

So the Man put the Boy on the Donkey and they went on their way. But soon they passed a group of men, one of whom said: “See that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides.”

So the Man ordered his Boy to get off, and got on himself. But they hadn't gone far when they passed two women, one of whom said to the other: “Shame on that lazy lout to let his poor little son trudge along.”

Well the Man didn't know what to do, but at last he took his Boy up before him on the Donkey. By this time they had come to the town, and the passersby began to jeer and point at them. The Man stopped and asked what they were scoffing at. The men said: “Aren't you ashamed of yourself for overloading that poor Donkey of yours—you and your hulking son?”

The man and Boy got off and tried to think what to do. They thought and they thought, till at last they cut down a pole, tied the Donkey's feet to it, and raised the pole and the Donkey to their shoulders. They went along amid the laughter of all who met them till they came to Market Bridge, when the Donkey, getting one of his feet loose, kicked out and caused the Boy to drop his end of the pole. In the struggle the Donkey fell over the bridge, and his fore-feet being tied together, he was drowned.

“That will teach you,” said an old man who had followed them:

“Please all, and you will please none.”




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