虽然是简单的形容
虽然是重复的动作
因为有你
让一切都变成不平凡

好想缝合你我手心
就这样牵着不开
有你陪伴
呼吸着有你的空气
就是幸福

ti amo te quiero
每一天都要爱上你
想着你沉入梦境
一张眼一清醒
第一个想到又是你

sa la he and i love you
我每天都要爱上你
少一天就会遗憾
陪着你的光阴
怎样都不算蹉跎

好想缝合你我手心
就这样牵着不开
有你陪伴
呼吸着有你的空气
就是幸福

ti amo te quiero
每一天都要爱上你
想着你沉入梦境
一张眼一清醒
第一个想到又是你

sa la he and i love you
我每天都要爱上你
少一天就会遗憾
陪着你的光阴
怎样都不算蹉跎
陪着你的光阴
怎样都不算蹉跎
永远都觉

0 comment[s] | back to top

Love is about being able to accept the person totally.



But,

why my heart,

consists of fear and insecurities?





is it that he isn't the guy whom Daddy want me to be with?

0 comment[s] | back to top

結果分析：[中酸性情人]:人妻情人
詳細分析：<妳的性格診斷書>
妳其 實是一個敏感且富於同理心的「人妻」型女性。無論外表給人的感覺如何，妳其實很體貼、很溫和，即便天性直率，也相當厚道。妳像是一瓶後勁十足的好酒，剛開 始不覺得有甚麼特別，可是會越陳越香，適合有耐心且懂得品味的人來欣賞。妳唯一難搞的地方是固執，自己堅信的事情，妳很難讓步，很多人以為妳好相處，其實 妳有不肯妥協的地方。正義感十足且擁有包容力的妳，在人生的道...路上，當心變成他人私心下的犧牲品。儘管懂得進退與給對方空間，但是別忘了保護自己。

<中酸性愛情分析>
妳 的賢慧與貼心，是一種隱性特質，表面上妳獨立且喜歡主導，不過骨子裡對於愛情的配合與容忍度卻很強，因此再艱辛的愛情妳都能繼續走下去。除非對方主動放 棄，妳不會輕言分手。妳的忠誠度與其他女性相比，也算是比較高的，感性且敏感的妳，其實很需要愛情的肯定，愛情的溫度，更是生命中不可或缺的幸福。正因為 如此，才華洋溢、任性自我以及異性緣好的對象，絕對不會是妳的真命天子，因為妳的自尊心受不了他人自私的折磨。平淡的愛情，才是妳的最大福報。通常妳的愛 情運會有如倒吃甘蔗般，屬於越晚越好的類型。

<魅力診療室>
妳的特質是，無論多麼優秀強勢，只要一談戀愛就會變笨。學著在愛情的世界裡多為自己盤算，會比較快樂。在裝扮上，換些時尚些的裝扮，或是嘗試一些平日沒考慮過的穿著，也能讓人驚艷。


I blogged this here because i think it was so true.
& ya.
just to keep it in my memory blog.
who knows i may lost my memories in future?

0 comment[s] | back to top

The story showing that money is not the main thing.

It is love.

Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in love with this girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then... heartbroken, the guy agreed.

When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself. Finally with all these hard work and with the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company...

"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself. "I must make it in life!"
One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore, he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He had made it in life!

Before the guy can realize, the couple was walking towards a cemetary,and he got out of his car and followed them...and he saw his ex-girlfriend, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his precious paper cranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb. Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was stricken ill with cancer. In her heart, she had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want her illness to be his obstacle ... therefore she had chosen to leave him.

She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him. The guy just wept ...the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again.

A tragic story that perhaps happens only in the movies. At the end of the day, money is money but love is divine. In our quest for our material wealth, take time to make time for our loved ones. There will be a time when we have only memories to cling to.
Take this weekend to show our "love" to all that are close to us.

0 comment[s] | back to top

You MUST watch this!

What do you do when you fall?

0 comment[s] | back to top

A story of how words of anger and impulse can do.

A girl in love asked her boyfriend.

Girl: Tell me. Who do you love most in this world?

Boy: You, of course!

Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?

Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said, "You are my rib. It was said that God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep, God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only when you find the woman of your life, you'll no longer feel the lingering ache in your heart."

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.

However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems, their life became mundane.

All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each other. The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became more heated.

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house. At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don't love me!"

The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, retorted, "Maybe, it was a mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!"

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while. He regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things and was determined in breaking-up.

Before she left the house, "If I'm really not your missing rib, please let me go." She continued, "It is less painful this way. Let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners."

Five years went by...

He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly. She had left the country and back. She had married a foreigner and divorced. He felt anguished that she never waited for him.

In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her.

One day, they finally met. At the airport, a place where there were many reunions and good byes. He was going away on a business trip. She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.

Boy: How are you?

Girl: I'm fine. How about you? Have you found your missing rib?

Boy: No.

Girl: I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.

Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back. You know my number. Nothing has changed.

With a smile, she turned around and waved good bye.

Good bye...

One week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York, in the event that shocked the world.

Midnight, once again, he lit his cigarette. And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart. He finally knew. She was the missing rib that he had carelessly broken.

Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury. Most often than not, the outcome could be disastrous and detrimental. We vent our frustrations 99% at our loved ones. And even though we know that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", it's often easier said than done.

Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control. Let us treasure every moment and everyone in our lives.

Tomorrow may never come. Give and accept what you have today.

0 comment[s] | back to top

Are you really in love? Or do you think that you are in love?

There is a big difference between love and infatuation. Some people can't tell the difference, thinking they are in love but really it is a deep infatuation. Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy.
There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away.

Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying.
But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up.
It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.

INFATUATION

Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love.

Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint?
This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction. often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her.

Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless.Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the feeling than it is in the other person.

Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.

Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation.
This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if
you are truly in love.

LOVE

Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love. Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfilment of expectations.

When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding.

Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace.
It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.
Love is Kind Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others..
It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.

You can do the following:

1. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.

2. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's strength.

3. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.

4. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.

5. Love is Not Jealous. Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget
about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.

6. Love is not about bragging. Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.

7. Love is Not Arrogant. Love is not conceited, boastful,cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course, this is not love.

8. Love always covers. This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential.

9. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn't criticise and broadcast to the world the faults of others.
Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.

10. Love always Perseveres. Love always stands its ground and hold out. It will outlast anything. It will even love in the face of unrequited love. Real love will last though all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.

11. Love is Not Provoked. This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended.

12. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centred rather than self- centred. Love says, "I love you, I want to give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"

13. Love does not act unbecomingly. This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonourably or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manner. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when you walk together.

14. Lastly, Love is forgiving. This is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been
wronged. It doesn't remain resentful.

** Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins. **

0 comment[s] | back to top

The word : L O V E

Love is like a river, always changing,
but always finding you again somewhere down the road.
Love means never having to say you are sorry.
Love is like quicksand,the deeper you fall in it,the harder it is to get out.
Love is running into his arms colliding with his heart and exploding into his soul.
Love isn't all smiles and laughs for the moment;but crying and fighting for
what you believe is right and will last forever.
Love-ing unconditional means forgiving and learning to live with his imperfections,
because in the end you'll realize that's what you love the most.
Love is just a word till someone you meet gives it a meaning.
Love is holding that special someone closely and realizing that is still isn't close enough.
Love is the greatest refreshment in life.
Love is not a matter of counting the years..but making the years count.
Love reckons hours for months and days for years and every little absence is an age.
Love alone matters
Love cures people, including the one who receives and the one who gives.
Love is a great master who teaches us to be what we never were.
Love is but a burning fire,the distance between us only increases our desire.
Love is like water; We can fall in it. We can drown in it. And we can't live without it.
Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others,
and the delight in the recognition.
Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind.
Love reminds you that nothing else matters.
Love is more than a feeling but a state of mind.
Love is like playing the piano.
First you must learn to play by the rules,
then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.
Love is a miracle.
Love is a language spoken by everyone but understood only by a heart.
Love works in miracles every day:
such as weakening the strong and stretching the weak;
making fools of the wise and wise men of fools,
favouring the passions, destroying reason,and in a word, turning everything topsy-turvy.
Love creates us without destroying a me.
Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.
Love is like quicksilver in the hand.
Leave the fingers open and it stays.
Clutch it, and it darts away.
Love is the only kind of fire that is never covered by insurance.
Love is the magician that pulls man out of his own hat.
Love is 3/4 dream and 1/4 reality.
Problems usually arise when you fall in love
with the dream and not the reality.
But, yet you find true love when you fall in love with both.
Love is blind only to the eyes as the heart sees everything clearly.
Love is like a bazaar,the admittance fee is free but it costs you
something when you get out.
Love is always bestowed as a gift-freely,willingly and without expectations,
we don't love to be loved but rather we love to love.
Love grows by giving,the love we give away is the only love we keep,
the only way to retain love is to give it away.
Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.
Love is an act of endless forgiveness,a tender looks that becomes a habit.
Love is an energy which exists of itself. It is its own value.
Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.
Love is not weakness. It is strong. Only the sacrament of marriage can contain it.
Love is an attempt to change a piece of a dream world into reality.






Most importantly,

LOVE NEVER FAILS.

Love with all your heart.
unconditionally loving people.
is the only way to make fill your heart too :D

0 comment[s] | back to top

The meaning of this word, BESTIE?

they will support you no matter what comes may.
they don't watch the time when they are listening to your problems.
they assure you that their hearts are there with you when they aren't physically there.
they tell you the truth of everything.
they depend on you trusting you are their friend.
they are dependable.
they bring you out for breather when they know you are getting out of breath.
they send porridge to your house knowing you are sick.
they send you medicine if you have none when you are sick.
they visit you when you are sick.
they call you straightaway when you tell them you are sad.
they rush down to where you are when you are lost in the midnight.
they called up people to go help you out when they can't.
they teach you when you are wrong but never condemns you.
they show you the meaning of friends.
they shower you with care even when you aren't sad or whatsoever.
they enjoy your presence.
they remember you whenever they want to do something fun.
they hug you when they see you cry.
they lend you their shoulder for you to cry.
they pat your head telling you is ok and that they are with you.
they try their best to meet your needs.
they believe in you no matter what slander comes up.
they defend for you when people talks bad about you.
they express their love through actions and words.
they tell you how they feel.
they will enter into your circle where you made for them to have protection.
they find you dependable and long to be with you forever.
they include you in as many events as possible.
they help you with your work when you need help.
they proudly presents you to their friends.
they openly say that you are their *level of friends* (bestie,gd friend or so)
they accept you for who you are and if it isn't good, they help you change.
they run the walk with you.
they hold your hands and run together.
they do not leave you behind on your own to suffer all.


# and i have found a VERY VERY VERY friend that suits ALL the above points.

&

that is no other than





















































































SHE IS MY GREATEST ADDICTION <3


i will be her protector,
i will be her shelter,
i will give her the best teddy hug,
i will shower her with love and care,
i will defend for her whoever dares to speak ill of her,
i will tell the world, SHE IS MY BESTIE,
i will shine like stars because that is what she hopes,
i will make her shine better than me,
i will be there for her if she needs me,
i will watch stars with her,
i will cry with her when she is sad,
i will wipe her tears and pats her head when she break down,
i will lend her my chubby and comfortable shoulder to rest on,
i will let her fall asleep on my thights,
i will see her through all the tough times,
i will be the star that protects the heart from being hurt!

0 comment[s] | back to top

Sometimes going through too much aren't as good as what many think.
Though it benefits in the way I can sayang the sad souls' hearts ;
analyzing how they feel and help them find the root feeling and cause,
but it can sometimes make you protect yourself so much
that you forgot how to love.
However, for me, it is a different case.
I can still go around loving everyone,
allowing my heart to roam about the words people speaks.
That means after getting hurt so much,
I can still accept guys in my life.
Whereas many people always work according to what they see people
react when the same situation arises.

For example :
Problem : My boyfriend who i loved alot, cheat on my feelings.
Majority reaction : Very upset. Break down. Sometimes even result
in taking revenge on them. Attempting suicide to show how your emotional and
mental needs are not met and it hurts so much.
Cannot stand up from the fall because it is supposed
to be that way since I am so hurt.
Result : Sometimes you may not be as sad as you actually are.
But because of the fact that you want to show that you actually love your
boyfriend alot, so you also react like what majority do. This is to double confirm
yourself that you love your boyfriend alot, that's why you will react this way.
& at the mean time let others also see how serious the situation is.
In fact : Actually what people needed is empathy. It is not sympathy. Is like a type of comfort that they hope they can get after this that had happened. A type of console
that they hope to get to agree that that are hurt, sayang-ing them
However, the friends most of the time neglected or ignored their feelings when they
did not appear to be very upset. That's why it resulted that they will result in such
behaviors. And for worse cases, they took these action that they took as a real
deep agony is their hearts. These is even a much more severe case than
those who really am upset. Because those who really am upset, knows when
they are alright. Those who took up the reaction do not know these sadness
will stop. They tends to dwell in the matter more than those people who are truly
sad. Most of the situations in relationships(not married yet,doesn't include being raped and extreme sacrifices made) are able to be resolved when you found the right one and when the right amount of empathy is given.

It is a little complicated here and there which i do not know how to
elaborate into words. It is a type of deep felt thing which black and white
aren't easy to define.

It is something like the following steps :

If,

friends & love ones are sensitive enough to provide the empathy, attention, love and care on the problem and not belittle it.


Then,

they will not need to resort to such actions to get it.


Thereafter,

it won't be that difficult for them to come out of the situation


Which means,

It is easier for them to move on.


Results in :

Stronger friendship, healthier heart and soul.
Most importantly, MORE LIFE IS SAVED!

0 comment[s] | back to top

My criteria of my boyfriend :

**very important**
# taller than me
# love me truly and wholeheartedly
# know why he loves me
# willing to change for me
# willing to do anything for me
# his world priority other than God, is me.
# don't make any promise to me unless he is sure he can fulfill.
( i rather not listen to promises than to feel the broken promise )
# believe in me NO MATTER what happens
# able to hold me when i fall
# only have me in his eyes in the sense of love
# gentleman
# accept me for who i am
# defend me when rumors arise
# hold my hand
# proud of having me as his gf
# stand up for me when people scold me or anyone look down on me
# be real and truthful to me regardless it is painful or not.
( i don't want to break any % of trust including 0.000000000000001% )
# able to support me financially
( depends on age and situation, of course. )
# have confidence in this relationship


Sorry if my criteria is so high.
i am out to look for a husband-criteria of boyfriend.
Not those normal guys i can find on orchard road,
together then break again.
hope i get all of you's understanding (:




p.s SUPER RANDOM.
p.s.p.s i don't know why, just have the feeling to do so~

0 comment[s] | back to top

I seemed to be missing someone now.
Awwww~
wondering if he thinks so too.
Awwww~
Don't sound very gooood uh?
Urhmmmm.
someone is sure smiling at what i just wrote.
haas. :D
yesterday went out with L,
i thought well, it is quite nice eh?
i do hope L is happy hanging out with me.
WAHAHA XD
i feel that L is kinda accepting.
he accepts me for who i am.
it's kinda rare to me.
he is also quite kind to me la!AHAHAHA!
he actually treat me to mac though he doesn't really have money le.
isn't it sweet? (:
Awww.. *faints*

i am having hell loads of projects pouring over me.
the time is so near like thursday,friday and saturday?
i am like crying already.
my eyes are super dry making extra discomfort.
to make things worse, i am sick now.
Flu, cough, fever, sore throat & headache.
sigh! why like that?

*though you don't like housefly,
i still have to tell you i am someone who needs
many many of love, care, concern and attention*

*somehow or rather, i hope he will come and look for me*

0 comment[s] | back to top

Hamster eating popcorn on the piano

Posted using ShareThis

0 comment[s] | back to top

0 comment[s] | back to top